Are we in a Reality or an Illusion?

How much of your life do you think is a reality? 

Your are probably thinking, with a confused expression, “Well of course I believe all of my Life is a Reality, right!? 

Well am sure I have your full attention now, for why would I have even asked this question (well actually my guides did LOL) on my life being a possible illusion for I do know am Living a Real Life!!

But are we really, for think about it a moment, if you have seen those movies that shows the person present life all of a sudden due to a car situation which in real time they are unconscious but in that dream state they are in a reality totally different if they made another choice.  Which the meaning of it is; that they are shown how another joyful heartfelt reality would of been if they followed their heart instead of their head.  The cool thing is it’s almost like a divine intervention for the character and they do find out it was all a dream and eventually follow their heart/inner wisdom choice for their life for it may be a simpler life but a very fulfilled joyful one.  

So now think about it if “our choices” is what creates what we call “our present reality” when we are actually supposed to follow our inner-wisdom divine being (our soul) but we choose to go more with our mental logical mind (Ego) instead.   Think about it if you like the character were shown this dream how your life could of been if you followed your inner-wisdom/heart, which one then will be  the true reality!

Sharing a part of my story (maybe I will write a book about it someday) with my very 1st marriage there were a lot of what I now call “warning signs” but as a naive young person at 22 years old I could not comprehend those “warning signs”.  Mind you not for lack of divine intervention starting with my “gut feeling/6th sense” which occurred every time I saw him and even the first kiss was sooooo sour tasting as it was showing me his intentions would be.  Well I swept all those “signs” away even friends and family members that gave me advise on being against this union, which years later proved them very right!! (sounds familiar) The worse part is that I found another very similar situation plus I kept calling him my first husband’s name and stating I keep feeling there’s a similarity but I can not pinpoint it.  Did I get the same signs “yes” except one factor the 1st kiss was totally different it was good but it was also over 4 years that I had dated any one so that factor could of played in on it.  The situation is that the 1st was a lesson I did need to learn and the harm was finically but it wasn’t the love of my life (that happened but it wasn’t with either of these mentioned) so it did not tear me emotionally.  The 2nd one that had the same signs with from the very beginning also but I knew deep inside that it did have to occur for other factors to play in my life. The aftermath of that marriage brought me a beautiful step-daughter and created the extended family that we do share.  It has given me great joy and love for close to 2 decades, so wouldn’t change that marriage but definitely other financial decisions that were made.

Now of course as much as there was the “divine intervention” with those two relationships (marriages) the not so divine one played hard ball and was going with my “you think you are better then him” for both, truth be told, they were not my types of guys neither in personality nor looks.  Not to say they were not nicely handsome guys but we did not actually fit, others would even mention it.  There really was no “love” there for neither party and that does show no matter if both of them are good looking, there’s a glow that loving couples have and we didn’t have it from the very beginning.  

The point of this story is that we are always given signs/messages on all aspects of our lives not only in relationships but in all events, yet unfortunately what we remember the most are the hardship ones.  There were other positive great people that have been involved in my life and when I followed my instincts great things occurred, so if I did follow my instincts then (inner-wisdom by divinity) wouldn’t my life have been different? So if we are brought here in what spiritualist call the “school of Life for our Soul” and we follow what the non-divine instincts which is; fear, guilt, shame, etc. etc., any and all negative thoughts and feelings, then isn’t that actually more of the illusion???  

There of course are lessons that we learn and we educate ourselves but if we didn’t really get the message, then guess what it will reoccur in which of course there were messages/signs gifted to me via talk shows and books on this subject (YouTube and Google or internet were not common or invented then), yet years later I fell again.  Sometimes we are meant to get these signs to be on alert but the situation needs to occur for other major events to happen but if we don’t continue to understand the signs and messages then unwanted events will happen.  With both I gave the situation to God and followed his methods and timing which funny thing is he made the signs very difficult to ignore with both (in your face methods) and also with both within 1-2 weeks of me letting go and letting God, the answer was given.  It gave me the faith and strength to continue the hardest part was that it took more over 10 years to finally get the complete message!!

This is the reason for this blog so that those who read it will hopefully not take them that long to really educate themself with the lessons as well as not letting themself fall victim to it.  There is a documentary/movie that started getting me introduced to the possibility of each one of “us” to be the creator of our lives, which they showed it scientifically explaining “Quantum Physics” this movie is “What the Bleep do We Know??.  If you haven’t seen it watch it and you may need to watch it a few times, I have seen it plenty of times for as a previous Massage Therapy Instructor, a total of  close to seven years, I would share this DVD with my students (my personal movie).  The reason for it was that it shows how our emotions do affect our physical self via hormones, plus it shows us about our negative views or words and it does not only affect your own self but the Earth, your surroundings and those that you encounter.  The one subject they also touch on is that there’s no actual “reality” and they go into a lot of scientific stuff which honestly was above my understanding but very interesting concepts.  This movie, in my opinion, should be seen at least once by as many as possible and within a group it’s even better, for it should be discussed over.  

This shows how your personal world and those around you does change because of your beliefs, actions and responses which becomes our perception of the entire world or personal situation.  One example is that there have been scientific proof on how in a crime scene when there are over 10 witness there is more than 5 completely different versions that’s a percentage of less then 50% accuracy.  How is that even possible if there can only be one version of the true event?!  As my wise father told me once, in a marriage there is the husband’s version of the true story, then there is the wife’s version of the true story, and then there is the Truth”!  It took me awhile to figure that one out for I was only 17 years old and never had a boyfriend so that was very confusing to me.  Then as I got older I realized the meaning to that saying and honestly it’s not only in relationships but in all areas of life that this happens.  Take a trip to your memory lane of your life and noticed if in those group gatherings if the parties involved, that were there with you in that experience, ask them how they recall that situation, you will notice that the story is different.  As humans we interpret things with our past memories even from birth or some even in the womb as well as our emotions, beliefs and heritage.  When all that is combined our brain starts creating another version of reality so as you can see we are creators of our life and how we live it is 100% up to oneself for no one can create it for you not even God or who others call Universe, Divine Beings whatever one you follow.  

DO NOTE: If you have read my previous posts and as my Blog’s name implies, my belief is in the Holy Trinity of God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit (took me in my 50’s after seeing the movie “The Shack” to fully understand that part) so for me the divine signs/messages are from God our creator of the Universe.  As much as I love discussing this topic, this post is not really about that but the main fact is; that as we are granted free-will then we make our own choices for this will be no divine intervention until you request and ask for that assistance. (all beings even animals as well as others in other realms) 

Therefore our choices will create our destiny/future depending if we follow inner-wisdom or the mental-logical side, even when we are faced with “out of our control situations” but if you look back is it a mistake of wrong time wrong place or was this the results of our choice to not listen to the actual divine message that was given to you either by thought or someone’s advise not to go there or be there….hoover on that for a moment.

So again, here goes the message which my guides presented as a thought to me, “Is life a Reality or an Illusion of what we have created?”  If we follow the path of fear, guilt, low self worth…etc all the negatives words that appear in your thoughts that at the time may have seem logical (no one said that God will let Satan play fair for he did not with Jesus either when he tempted him those 40 days and 40 nights and in the garden before his death) so choices might have been made logically instead of following your inner wisdom.  The amazing thing is that God will never leave your side for this was shown and proven to us in the New Testament and watching the show “The Chosen” (awesome see the very first episode then decide) really made me aware of that and this is when it all starting make sense to me, actually all of it!! These are items that divinity keeps sending me in different forms which my continued awareness keeps growing but there is more that myself personally does need to work on that keeps being pushed aside, for that is ok, and now with his grace and my understanding of the message Jesus was brought here to give all of us, is that it’s ok he does and will always ‘Love you’ all you need to do is follow him and he will lead you to that path.  That’s the sins he took….our negative beliefs, thoughts and heart for we are to love everyone even those who hate us, prosecute us, deny us or hurt us physically, emotionally and/or mentally.  So as he (Jesus) went through all that for “US” and he forgave all who did any or all of those things to him, then how can we think we are superior to him and do not “forgive” thinking it’s beneath us yet we feel that God should forgive us for all our wrong doings!! Oops that took a bit of a detour but apparently those words do need to be written.  

This is what I have come to the conclusion of this message that I have received from my guides is that as we make our choices look inside and connect to source, that we are all given, we just need to activate it so the connection is clear and strong! As we are in the technical world and the internet is only as strong as its surrounding frequencies then so are we.  There’s great YouTube videos all discussing this topic and there has even been scientific studies to show it’s not a “new age” way of thinking it is Reality!! So maybe those non-believers are the one’s living in an Illusion after all…..LOL.

Let your reality be your pass illusions of a happier fulfilled you and do live the life “you” deeply have wanted to live and it be your true reality, that you were always meant to have.  The ups and downs will always be but there will be plenty more ups then downs, which at times it feels that the ups do require one to be searching hard for them but they are there for that’s when God is yelling at us to really focus on where our faith and life is heading.  We do need the downs to help us build our strength and faith as well as empathize with others.  There is always someone dealing with much greater hardship and they may think the same of your situation, as the saying goes “God gives you what he knows you can handle” even if you don’t at the time understand why it is occurring, just trust in him and you will see later the reasons why.  That’s what faith really is and Yes, we do have to prove it every single day of our lives until our last breath and beyond…..this is why it’s called “The School of Life for your Soul”!

May love and peace always follow you and may you have the strength and desire to achieve them!